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PostSubject: My Cousin!   Sun Jun 20, 2010 9:45 am

Okay guys. I have a huge problem, that I don't really care about lol! (I just fear it could escalate into something.. HUGE)

So my cousin is a fan of Youtube.

Which is all good and stuff if she doesn't watch anything bad.

Problem is she is watching bad stuff.

She is currently 9 yrs old and about 2 months.

How do I tell her parents and my mom that my female cousin is watching stuff on Youtube with titles like: "girl on her bed sexy booty dance", "a girl went to bed and took of her clothes in bed and opened the covers", "sexy girls stripping naked" , "my boyfrind is licking my boobs" ETC....

WHAT DO I DO?!?!?! And I'm not trying to be funny here. Though she is 9.. she isn't TECH savvy, so I checked the history on our browser. She closed the browser all fast last night. Funny thing is.. she was going behind our back and looking at these things while my mom is home... and I'm watching House MD lol.

TL;DR version:
My 9 year old female cousin is trying to watch Porn on Youtube. How do I tell on her.. without pissing off her parents? To me, I understand because hormones are kicking in and she is going around hearing stuff like "Boobs", "Sex", "Naked", Etc. at home and at school.

P.S I was wondering when her hormones would start kicking in..(because she is already 9) But if this continues, as hard as it is to say that it could happen, she might be headed down Teen Pregnancy and that's no good.

----WOOPS. U can move this if u want. Sorry. I wanted to put this under life. But At least here it's more private lol. SORRY. YOU CAN MOVE IT.!!!
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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jun 20, 2010 11:52 am

I'll move it for you.

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How do I tell her parents and my mom that my female cousin is watching stuff on Youtube with titles like: "girl on her bed sexy booty dance", "a girl went to bed and took of her clothes in bed and opened the covers", "sexy girls stripping naked" , "my boyfrind is licking my boobs" ETC....
Why do you bold female? Does being male make things better?
There isn't really anything for her parent's to do.
They can try supervising more closely.. but they aren't going to do that.
In the process, they'll end up doing something stupid like blocking her privelleges to watch them.
Or they'll give her some sort of talk.
Whatever it is though, it'll make their parent-child relationship thinner.
They should have thought about blocking this beforehand.
BTW: Why would you tell your own mom? it isn't any of her business...

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P.S I was wondering when her hormones would start kicking in..(because she is already 9) But if this continues, as hard as it is to say that it could happen, she might be headed down Teen Pregnancy and that's no good.
I personaly would take the initiative and talk to your cousin.
You won't have any luck trying to predict her hormones, it could have started kicking in already.
Fearing the road to Teen Pregnancy? This issue depends on the person and her environment, unless someone online is in a very similar situation, you can gain little to none from internet advice.

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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jun 20, 2010 5:35 pm

ummm u might wanna ask her parents "u kno wat shes watchin on youtube rite?" and telle the 2 leave like a hidden camera or sum crap 2 watch her on da computer or try 2 be kool about it but idk wat to do if u gon try 2 be kool about it its just an impulse thing
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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jun 20, 2010 6:22 pm

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I'll move it for you.

Why do you bold female? Does being male make things better?
There isn't really anything for her parent's to do.
They can try supervising more closely.. but they aren't going to do that.
In the process, they'll end up doing something stupid like blocking her privelleges to watch them.
Or they'll give her some sort of talk.
Whatever it is though, it'll make their parent-child relationship thinner.
They should have thought about blocking this beforehand.
BTW: Why would you tell your own mom? it isn't any of her business...

I personaly would take the initiative and talk to your cousin.
You won't have any luck trying to predict her hormones, it could have started kicking in already.
Fearing the road to Teen Pregnancy? This issue depends on the person and her environment, unless someone online is in a very similar situation, you can gain little to none from internet advice.

Oh. I bolded it because I thought that was the first time I made it CLEAR that it wasn't a male but a female. But.. then i re read and realized I said She like 6 times. It makes the situation for me a little different. It's a lot easier if I was talking about a guy. I could talk a bit to a guy.. but a girl.. EHH.. that's all that.

Her parents fight a lot... Which is why I think they are both children. At least try to HIDE it.. But.. they fight. RIGHT IN FRONT OF HER. Her mom literally YELLS on the phone that the whole two story house can hear. Oh and my mom, and I, are around her more than her parents. We live in the same house. Her mom goes out partying.. her dad lives in a different place.. It's.. really hectic.

I would rather not talk to her.. I just don't want her parents finding out.. and getting mad. I feel like I understand because.. she is at school.. TV (iCarly talks about pointy boobs right off the bat.. Do parents watch these things?) and add hormones to that.. she is gonna react.. I just would rather not have the parents get mad for no reason. And then it could escalate badly. Them fighting about parental cares.. And like u said.. supervising the child to a point that she would rather just rebel her way out. And this could lead to stuff like Teen Pregnancy.. which is what supposedly was attempted to being.. controlled.. or ceased but instead made it occur. By the way.. I think i'm going too far with this Teen Pregnancy stuff.. so u can just ignore that.(Plus.. i think this sentence has horrible grammar lol especially at the beginning lol)

So how do I make the parents aware of this... Without them getting pissed.. Without her being.. overly supervised as a result.. AND...WITHOUT ME being involved in talking to her? The parents are the parents.. not Me. I strictly don't want to be a parent because of tough stuff like this. I can barely take care of myself.. why add worries of someone else to the list?

Lol Perp.. I love ur idea. But that doesn't help make the parents less mad lol. That would probably blow them up when they finally find out lol.
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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jun 20, 2010 10:56 pm

Like you said, it isn't your problem. Just rat her out to her parents regardless, and then talk to her after you do that. If you talk to her beforehand, she'll just be more secretive about it. Just go to her parents and be like "Uhh, uncle bob and aunt sarah? Yeah..I caught your daughter looking up soem inappropriate things on youtube. I can show you some things she searched, and uh..I dont know. I think you should talk to her or try and prevent this". Or whatever the disucssion leads to. Dont feel like its in your hands. Put it in theres. Then be finished with it. Who cares if they get mad? They wouldnt get mad at you. Thatd be stupid.
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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jun 20, 2010 11:59 pm

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Like you said, it isn't your problem. Just rat her out to her parents regardless, and then talk to her after you do that. If you talk to her beforehand, she'll just be more secretive about it. Just go to her parents and be like "Uhh, uncle bob and aunt sarah? Yeah..I caught your daughter looking up soem inappropriate things on youtube. I can show you some things she searched, and uh..I dont know. I think you should talk to her or try and prevent this". Or whatever the disucssion leads to. Dont feel like its in your hands. Put it in theres. Then be finished with it. Who cares if they get mad? They wouldnt get mad at you. Thatd be stupid.

Abbx is so practical lol. I'll probably just chill like I saw nothing Very Happy
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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Mon Jun 21, 2010 12:01 am

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Like you said, it isn't your problem. Just rat her out to her parents regardless, and then talk to her after you do that. If you talk to her beforehand, she'll just be more secretive about it. Just go to her parents and be like "Uhh, uncle bob and aunt sarah? Yeah..I caught your daughter looking up soem inappropriate things on youtube. I can show you some things she searched, and uh..I dont know. I think you should talk to her or try and prevent this". Or whatever the disucssion leads to. Dont feel like its in your hands. Put it in theres. Then be finished with it. Who cares if they get mad? They wouldnt get mad at you. Thatd be stupid.
Well If you don't wanna get involved RadMad, abbx's advice is the best u got.

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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sat Jul 10, 2010 6:37 pm

lol youtube doesnt have porn.... well they do sometimes but it gets reported within like 2-5 mins LOLOL, its like its there one min and its gone the next T_T well if shes 9 and she looking up pervy stuff on YOUTUBE of all places, u dun got much to worry about since youtube doesnt have porn LOLOL, hmms now if she looks up porn sites like redtube.com or etc any pornsites with tube, then yahs u gonna have to confront and say, AY YOOO U A CHICK DONT BE A SLUT, BUT IF U GOTTA LOOK THESE PERVY STUFF, heres a couple o magz the bathroom to yo right =D lol i kid i kid, obv her innocence is ruined since she knows the inuendos behind these pervy stuff u listed "lick my boobs" "stripping" etc soooooo u can just have a casual talk with her i guess, but idk how much u can get thru to a horny 9 yr old. Other than that, dont embarrass her by snitching her out to her parents, she'll hate u for life and I mean FOR LIFE, unless u hate her guts too then go nuts if not, try to be like an older bro to her and talk to her about this casually, be like "so i heard u like mudkipz with tits" =D or something lolols
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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sat Jul 10, 2010 11:07 pm

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lol youtube doesnt have porn.... well they do sometimes but it gets reported within like 2-5 mins LOLOL, its like its there one min and its gone the next T_T well if shes 9 and she looking up pervy stuff on YOUTUBE of all places, u dun got much to worry about since youtube doesnt have porn LOLOL, hmms now if she looks up porn sites like redtube.com or etc any pornsites with tube, then yahs u gonna have to confront and say, AY YOOO U A CHICK DONT BE A SLUT, BUT IF U GOTTA LOOK THESE PERVY STUFF, heres a couple o magz the bathroom to yo right =D lol i kid i kid, obv her innocence is ruined since she knows the inuendos behind these pervy stuff u listed "lick my boobs" "stripping" etc soooooo u can just have a casual talk with her i guess, but idk how much u can get thru to a horny 9 yr old. Other than that, dont embarrass her by snitching her out to her parents, she'll hate u for life and I mean FOR LIFE, unless u hate her guts too then go nuts if not, try to be like an older bro to her and talk to her about this casually, be like "so i heard u like mudkipz with tits" =D or something lolols
I wouldn't go to boo for life advice.
BTW Rad, you never updated us on this?

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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jul 11, 2010 1:42 am

-coughs @ abb and that miri situation- WUUUUT AZZZN, idabes at life advice yooo
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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jul 11, 2010 2:41 am

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-coughs @ abb and that miri situation- WUUUUT AZZZN, idabes at life advice yooo
Not really. Nothing happened because I stopped caring so you failed me sir lol.
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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jul 11, 2010 7:16 am

ummms i didnt faaaaill shet, i got u on her lunch table now didnt I, wut ever happend after that was ur own doing, if u didnt get in her pants, its not my fault ur personality didnt get to her, i delivered u didnt make up for it not my failure but ur own, plz dun blame other ppl for ur own failures =P
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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jul 11, 2010 2:40 pm

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ummms i didnt faaaaill shet, i got u on her lunch table now didnt I, wut ever happend after that was ur own doing, if u didnt get in her pants, its not my fault ur personality didnt get to her, i delivered u didnt make up for it not my failure but ur own, plz dun blame other ppl for ur own failures =P

Dude you didnt get me at her table. I use those tables regardless lol. We all have like 3-4 tables we all go to, so that wasnt you. That was me going to my own tables. Point is the Miri example doesnt redeem you any good because all you did was tell Darlene about it, and that didn't help anything xD

Also Im not trying to get in her pants. lol. What happened was I just decided to stop talking to her, on my own will.
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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jul 11, 2010 3:01 pm

lies u wanna get in her pants as much as I do =D and i remember how u was all nervous and shet to even talk to her, u was LIIKKE OMGGGGGG I MISSED MY CHANCE TO TALK TO HER IN SO AND SO PERIOD, and then when u DID TALK TO HER, u was like OMGGG ITS A BIG DEAL IM SOOO HAPPPPY YAAAAH ^^b

soo anyways basically u just gave up on her? me telling Darleney loosened up the tension between u 2, awwws still its so sad u gave up on her, me and darleney was rootin for ya too =P
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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jul 11, 2010 3:21 pm

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lies u wanna get in her pants as much as I do =D and i remember how u was all nervous and shet to even talk to her, u was LIIKKE OMGGGGGG I MISSED MY CHANCE TO TALK TO HER IN SO AND SO PERIOD, and then when u DID TALK TO HER, u was like OMGGG ITS A BIG DEAL IM SOOO HAPPPPY YAAAAH ^^b

soo anyways basically u just gave up on her? me telling Darleney loosened up the tension between u 2, awwws still its so sad u gave up on her, me and darleney was rootin for ya too =P
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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jul 11, 2010 3:28 pm

lols if by better off on his own u mean being called the "weird guy that stared at the wall" instead of when abb and miri got close to each other as friends thru talking =] then kk lolol

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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jul 11, 2010 3:30 pm

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lols if by better off on his own u mean being called the "weird guy that stared at the wall" instead of when abb and miri got close to each other as friends thru talking =] then kk lolol
So, it was a rocky start.
He still would have been better off, trust me.

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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jul 11, 2010 4:40 pm

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lies u wanna get in her pants as much as I do =D and i remember how u was all nervous and shet to even talk to her, u was LIIKKE OMGGGGGG I MISSED MY CHANCE TO TALK TO HER IN SO AND SO PERIOD, and then when u DID TALK TO HER, u was like OMGGG ITS A BIG DEAL IM SOOO HAPPPPY YAAAAH ^^b

soo anyways basically u just gave up on her? me telling Darleney loosened up the tension between u 2, awwws still its so sad u gave up on her, me and darleney was rootin for ya too =P

Its true I hated the fact I missed those 2 good chances that I got early on. And? They were good ones lol. Also, when I talked to her it was nice, yea. But, then I just gave up because I didnt care anymore lol.

Telling Darlene didn't do anything. lol.

xD Youre making a bigger deal out of this than it is just to redeem yourself a good person at helping people with their lives.

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ummms i didnt faaaaill shet, i got u on her lunch table now didnt I

No. you didnt do anything. lol.
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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jul 11, 2010 5:01 pm

UFAILCUZUSCURREDOFTHATGIRLLLLLL

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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jul 11, 2010 5:18 pm

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UFAILCUZUSCURREDOFTHATGIRLLLLLL

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Someones butthurt that he was proven useless lol.
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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jul 11, 2010 5:42 pm

lol...... I dont get butthurt from helping a friend get aquainted with a girl he likes buuut hey next time u come to me for girl advice, lets see how far u get ON UR OWN ^^
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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Sun Jul 11, 2010 6:17 pm

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lol...... I dont get butthurt from helping a friend get aquainted with a girl he likes buuut hey next time u come to me for girl advice, lets see how far u get ON UR OWN ^^
I was just venting. You didnt help me lol. All you need to do when people vent is listen, and give small advice. I vent to many people. xD, well not now though.
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PostSubject: Re: My Cousin!   Fri Jul 16, 2010 5:12 pm

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I wouldn't go to boo for life advice.
BTW Rad, you never updated us on this?

Oh, i just kinda didn't say anything. I don't really care. Her parents are in one of their worst stages since like her mom found out that her dad had a baby with someone else. Go figure. So I won't make it worse.
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